Mood Swings
When Emotions Move in Waves
If you’ve felt unexpectedly tearful, irritable, or overwhelmed, you’re not losing control—you’re navigating a neurological recalibration. Mood swings are often one of the earliest signs of perimenopause, appearing even before menstrual changes. Research shows nearly 70% of women experience mood changes during perimenopause and menopause. These shifts are driven by fluctuating neurosteroids that affect emotional regulation and often accompany sleep disruption, brain fog, and heightened stress sensitivity.
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(The "Meno-Rage" Phenomenon) What is often jokingly called "menopause rage" has a concrete biological basis. The decline in estrogen dampens the influence of the prefrontal cortex—the area of the brain responsible for impulse control and "putting the brakes" on emotional reactions. Simultaneously, the amygdala (the brain's emotional alarm bell) becomes more reactive to stress.
This creates a perfect storm: your brain's threat detection system is hypersensitive, while its logical regulation system is momentarily offline. The result is an "amygdala hijack," where minor situations that you could previously tolerate now trigger an intense, visceral fight-or-flight response.
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Rather than clinical anxiety, many women experience dysregulation—a feeling of unease, restlessness, or nervousness that seems disproportionate to the situation. This is often linked to the withdrawal of key neurosteroids that normally keep the brain calm.
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Estrogen Fluctuation
What is Happening? Estrogen helps regulate the production of serotonin (the "happiness" neurotransmitter) and TPH2. When estrogen levels swing wildly, serotonin production becomes erratic.
The Result: Tearfulness, sadness, and increased sensitivity to pain or criticism.
Allopregnanolone Withdrawal
What is Happening? Progesterone breaks down into a soothing neurosteroid called Allopregnanolone (ALLO), which calms GABA receptors in the brain. When progesterone drops, you lose this natural sedative.
The Result: A state of "wired and tired," restlessness, and inability to settle down.
The Gut-Brain Axis
What is Happening? Your gut microbiome (specifically the estrobolome) helps metabolize hormones. Perimenopause can alter gut bacteria, disrupting the signals sent to the brain via the vagus nerve.
The Result: Brain fog, mood reactivity, and digestive discomfort linked to stress.
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For some women, the issue isn't just low progesterone, but how the brain's receptors change in response to it. During the volatile windows of perimenopause, the GABA-A receptors in the brain can alter their shape (specifically the alpha-4 subunit). This can create a "paradoxical effect" where the brain becomes less sensitive to calming signals, leading to agitation even when hormones are present. This mechanism is similar to what occurs in PMDD (Premenstrual Dysphoric Disorder), but it happens on an unpredictable timeline during perimenopause.
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Our Scientific Foundation: Why We Trust These Sources
At Novapause, our "Science + Soul" commitment means our content is built on a foundation of the highest-quality, most trusted sources in medical science.
Trusted Sources
National Institute on Aging (NIA): Provides foundational research on how hormonal fluctuations influence mood and brain chemistry in midlife.
Study of Women’s Health Across the Nation (SWAN): Longest-running study examining how perimenopause affects depression, anxiety, sleep, and emotional well-being.
The Journal of the Menopause Society:Publishes clinical guidance on mood disorders, hormone therapy, and non-hormonal strategies for emotional regulation during menopause.
Specific Articles Related to Mood Swings & Anxiety
Bromberger & Epperson (2018): Depression During and After Perimenopause
Highlights how the "window of vulnerability" during perimenopause is driven by hormonal fluctuations interacting with life stressors.Stute & Lozza-Fiacco (2022): Strategies to Cope with Stress and Anxiety
Explores non-hormonal strategies, emphasizing that resilience to stress can be supported through lifestyle and cognitive adaptations.Peters, Santoro, Kaplan & Qi (2022): Gut Microbiome in Menopause
Establishes the critical link between the gut microbiome and mood regulation during menopause, suggesting that gut health is foundational to mental health.
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Most emotional shifts during perimenopause are normal and temporary. But if your feelings ever become overwhelming or you’re struggling to cope, support is always available.
In the U.S.:
• 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline — Call or text 988
• Crisis Text Line — Text HOME to 741741You deserve care and understanding — and you’re never alone.
The Science Behind the Symptom
Disclaimer: This educational information provides a general understanding of menopause-related symptoms and is not intended to diagnose or treat any condition, nor replace guidance from a qualified healthcare provider.
NovaPause Tip
Give yourself a 5-minute calm break. Place a hand over your heart, take slow breaths, gently name what you’re feeling, and repeat a grounding phrase like “I am steady” as your body and mind settle.